ABC Nannies put on a very fun picnic at Washington Park this week with entertainment by the Jackman Brothers. Watching a children's magician and eating sno-cones is definitely fun, but what I noticed most is the camaraderie felt amongst these caretakers and their little ones. It isn't easy finding others who are in the same boat as you and understand about poopy diapers and everything going into your little one's mouth, but when you do find it there is this sense of relief and a feeling that you can relax and be yourself. Not everyone understands babies and young children and that's okay, but then again not everyone knows how to diagnose and fix a broken computer but we still respect IT guys.
I guess the point that I'm trying to make here is that we as caregivers need to find a better way to network and create positive ways to support one another. When you are a single, stay-at-home parent or a nanny, you don't have co-workers to talk to throughout your day. You become friends with the mailman, the neighbors, and anyone close-by who shows some level of respect for the work that you do that you know is just as important as everyone else's (if not more so because it IS human capital development, but I won't argue that point now...). It's time for caregivers of young children to speak out and step up- time to partner up and get together. Ask that sweet lady you just met at the playground if she'd like to meet up for a playdate next Tuesday. Maybe you thought that man was a bit rude, but your little one enjoyed the company of his toddler, so ask if they'll be at this same park anytime soon so that you can bring your little one back to play. Socialize. Get out in your community. Let's get together more and find ways to show our youngest generation how to be the best future members of our community that they can be! "Children should be seen and not heard" is a phrase from the past, let's change this mantra together and grow a new culture that thrives on community and enjoying new experiences together- loud and clear!